Submissive Archetypes: Which One Are You Really?
Not all submission looks the same.
Some serve with silence.
Some serve through shame.
Some serve through their wallets, their routines, their broken pride.
During my time as a Domme in this lifestyle, I’ve studied them all. Trained them. Owned them. Broken and rebuilt them.
You don’t come to me for generic dominance.
You come to be seen, decoded, and handled accordingly.
So tell me, sub... which one are you?
1. The Service Sub
You live to serve. You need to be told what to do, how to help, and where to be.
You ask how you can make my life easier, not how I can entertain you.
I give you tasks. Deadlines. A purpose. And your only reward? The knowledge that you were useful.
2. The Pain Pet (Masochist)
You crave the sting. The burn. The bruise. You want to be hurt, not because you're weak, but because you're wired that way.
With me, every mark is deliberate. Every slap, every crop, every moan… earned.
3. The Brat
You test me. Tease me. Push your limits, knowing full well I’ll push back harder. You want discipline. Correction. Proof that I won’t fold.
I don’t fold, baby. I break you with precision and make you thank me for it.
4. The Financial Sub (Paypig)
Money is how you love. You ache to give.
You don’t want free attention, you want to pay to exist in my world. The tighter your budget gets, the wetter your obsession becomes.
I drain you. I spend it. And you feel seen.
5. The Ritualist
You worship structure. You crave repetition. “Good morning, Mistress” isn’t optional, it’s sacred.
I give you protocol. You give me compliance. We both get what we want: order, ownership, obsession.
6. The Obedient
You don’t need to question. You just need to serve. Obedience is your oxygen. You don’t chase praise, you chase perfection.
I lead. You follow. That’s your heaven.
7. The Pet
You don’t want to think. You want to belong. Whether you’re my puppy, kitten, or piglet, your identity is shaped by submission.
I collar you. I name you. I train you. And you learn to love it.
8. The Degradee
You need to be called pathetic. Broke. Worthless. You thrive on shame and spiral deeper with every cruel word.
I don’t insult, I strip you down to your core. And rebuild you as mine.
9. The Emotional Submissive
You don’t just want a session. You want to belong. Fully. Spiritually. Emotionally. You crave ownership that goes far deeper than kink.
I take control of your mind, your moods, your identity. You feel safe only when I’m watching.
10. The Devotee
You don’t need tasks or pain, you just need me. My presence. My voice. My existence is your obsession.
You tribute for a glimpse. You ache to be noticed. You'd lick the floor if it meant I looked your way.
11. The Exhibitionist Sub
You want to be exposed. Shamed. Made to perform. The thrill of being seen in your vulnerability is your undoing.
I know exactly how far to push you… and just how much you’ll love it.
12. The Mental Masochist
You don’t need a whip. You need words. Control. Deconstruction. You long to be unraveled, bent, and reshaped under my command.
I get into your head and never leave. You’ll beg me to stop and ache when I do.
13. The Hybrid
Let’s be honest… you saw yourself in more than one.
Submission is layered.
You can serve with your wallet, your silence, your bruises, and your devotion, all at once.
Lucky for you, I know how.