The Domme Who Tears Others Down Will Never Truly Rise
In this world, the crown you wear is not made of gold. It is built from respect, authenticity, and the way you carry yourself.
And yet, some women seem to think the fastest way to elevate their status is to push others down. They snipe from the sidelines, roll their eyes at someone else’s success, pocketwatch and attempt to “poach” subs, whisper in DMs about what they think she’s “really like.” They believe that by dimming another Domme’s light, their own will somehow shine brighter.
It will not.
This is not a competition where tearing down the “opponent” earns you a prize. The truth is simple. Anyone secure in their craft and confident in their energy has no need to take from others in order to grow. The Dommes who thrive are the ones who understand that the ecosystem we work in is vast enough for everyone to eat. They focus on their own lane, their own subs, their own evolution.
When you waste your energy on dragging others, you reveal more about yourself than you do about them. You show your insecurity, your scarcity mindset, and your lack of vision. While you are busy obsessing over what she is doing, she is busy building her empire and the gap between you widens every single day.
And here is something the petty ones do not seem to realise. Subs see it.
They are not blind, and they are not stupid. When they catch wind of a Domme badmouthing others or making drama her personality, they run. Why? Because they are here for an escape. A fantasy. A place to leave the stress and petty politics of the real world behind. Nobody invests their devotion or their money into someone who feels toxic to be around.
Power is not gained through pettiness. A real Domme knows that her value comes from her presence, her ethics, her creativity, and the loyalty she inspires, not from gossip or cheap shots. The industry, and the submissives who invest in it, can feel the difference between a woman who stands tall on her own and one who tries to stand taller by cutting off someone else’s legs.
So if you are tempted to win by making another woman lose, ask yourself what you are really building. Because a throne made from the rubble of someone else’s success will never stand for long.
Elevate yourself by being someone worth looking up to. Your reputation will follow you everywhere. And so will the shadow you leave behind.
— AJ