Get to Know Me (A Little Too Well)

10 Fun Facts About Me (That You Probably Didn’t Know)

Curiosity looks good on you.

I know some of you wonder what I’m like when I’m not being the woman who takes your breath, your thoughts, and occasionally your wallet.

So here’s a softer glimpse: ten small truths that make up the person behind the control.

1. I’m hypermobile and double-jointed.

Yes, I move beautifully. Flexibility has its perks, and yes, I know what you’re probably thinking. It sounds sexy, and sometimes it is.

But the truth? It also means I’m constantly dislocating things, putting my neck out, and injuring myself doing the most mundane things imaginable. So while it might look graceful, it comes with a price. It’s one of the reasons I’ve shifted my focus more toward online dynamics. After ten years in the in-person BDSM scene, the body does start to feel it. This next chapter is about channeling power differently, with less strain and more intention.

2. If my house was burning down…

I’d save my LEGO before my Louboutins. The shoes were bought, the LEGO was built. There’s something deeply satisfying about creating something piece by piece. Much like training a submissive, it’s equal parts patience, focus, and reward.

My favorite sets to build are the architectural ones, iconic landmarks from around the world. I also have a soft spot for LEGO cars. And if you’re smart enough to send a tribute for LEGO, I might just show you my collection.

3. Caffeine is my love language.

It’s not just caffeine, it’s a ritual. As someone with ADHD, I genuinely can’t function without it. My mornings (and afternoons, let’s be honest) run on that coffee fix. Then, at night, I unwind with a little medicinal Mary Jane to quiet my brain and help me sleep. So yes, I’m absolutely 420-friendly, but I don’t smoke cigarettes or vape anymore. I used to, and I’m genuinely so glad I don’t. It feels good to breathe easily and live intentionally.

That’s also why coffee tributes mean so much to me, because I actually drink a lot of it. It’s a very expensive form of self-medication when you’re quite snobby about a good coffee, and especially when you need it multiple times a day.

4. My secret side hustle: unpaid food critic.

I love what I do. Being a professional dominatrix is genuinely my dream job. But if I wasn’t doing this, the next best career I’d probably choose would be as a food critic. My Google Reviews are dangerously detailed; I write them like I’m submitting to The New York Times. It’s a completely ridiculous hobby, but I take it far too seriously. Every meal is an audition, and yes, I absolutely rate the plating, the ambience, and the emotional journey of the dessert.

That doesn’t mean I’m a complete food snob, though. I’ll still happily sit on St. Kilda Beach with cheeky, greasy fish and chips. I don’t discriminate. And if you’re wondering, Vietnamese food is my absolute favourite.

5. I’m addicted to learning new things.

I’m one of those people who can’t just like something, I need to understand it completely. I love learning about psychology, art, history, and human behaviour. I actually hold qualifications in both mental health and marketing, and I use a lot of neuromarketing in how I advertise myself and attract new submissives. It’s fascinating how the mind responds to desire, control, and reward. So yes, when I say I know how to get inside your head, I really mean it.

6. I’m surprisingly good at celebrity impressions.

My favourites to do are Celine Dion, Cher, and Shakira. One minute it’s dramatic ballads, the next it’s hip-shaking chaos. My cats look unimpressed. I keep going anyway.

7. Shoes are my trophies.

Especially the sub-funded ones. Each pair tells a story of power, pleasure, and generosity. I don’t just wear them; I remember who put me in them.

Having my feet worshipped is one of my biggest kinks, so shoes feel like an extension of that power. They’re sensual, symbolic, and part of the ritual. I love fashion, and I see shoes as art, each pair chosen with intention. When I see a pair I love, it’s instant. I think, they’re sexy, I need them, and I need to be worshipped in them.

8. I’m equal parts introvert and extrovert.

I adore people, but I value silence even more. I think mystery thrives in the space between presence and absence, that’s where intrigue lives.

A lot of people tell me I’m incredibly down to earth and not pretentious in the slightest, which always makes me smile. I love meaningful conversation and genuine connection, but I also love my own company. I need both to feel balanced.

9. I’m a little sentimental to a fault.

I keep notes, ribbons, and tiny fragments of memory. Not because I need them, but because I like to remember how things made me feel. Sentimentality doesn’t weaken power, it deepens it.

And while I’m kind, playful, and approachable, never mistake that softness for weakness. My boundaries are firm, my expectations clear, and my dominance unwavering. I flirt, I tease, I play, but make no mistake, I’m still in control.

10. I believe in aftercare, in kink and in life.

Intensity without tenderness means nothing. I’ll challenge, tease, and push, but I’ll also make sure you’re grounded afterward. That’s real dominance, knowing when to strike and when to soothe.

I take what I do seriously because it’s not just about kink, it’s about psychology, connection, and trust. I may not be a soft Domme, but I am a deeply intentional one. Everything I do is deliberate, and that’s exactly why it works.

Power isn’t always loud. Sometimes it’s found in the quiet discipline of knowing who you are, and choosing when to let the world see it.