Why I Don’t Offer a “Menu” (And You Shouldn’t Expect One)

Let’s get this straight.

I am not a restaurant.
I am not a vending machine.
I am not a kink dispenser.

I am a professional and lifestyle Domme. I create bespoke experiences rooted in psychological control, erotic power exchange, and individual dynamics.

So no, I do not offer a “menu”.
And no, you should not expect one.

Domination Is Not a Transaction. It Is a Dynamic.

When you message a Domme asking for a menu, aka a list of “services” and their prices, what you are really doing is trying to stay in control.
You want to click and collect kink like you are shopping for groceries.

But I do not serve submission in neat little packages.
Because what I offer is not one-size-fits-all.

What I do is tailored.
What I create is designed.
And how I dominate is based entirely on you, your behavior, your mindset, your attitude, your ability to sacrifice, and your willingness to surrender.

You Are Not Buying a Product. You Are Entering a Power Exchange.

I am not here to be sampled. I am not here to be booked like a hotel room.
I am here to be served, funded, and obeyed.

You are not paying for five minutes of dirty talk or a photo of my feet.
You are funding my power, my pleasure, my lifestyle.

I lead the dynamic. You do not tell me what to do or what it’s worth.

And yet,
I also understand that not every submissive is the same.

I Work With Budgets. But I Expect Honesty and Sacrifice.

A $10 tribute from one sub may be everything he has after bills and food.
To another sub, $1,000 might be pocket change.

I take this into account.
Because submission is not about the amount. It is about what it means for the person giving it.

I do not believe in fixed-price interactions because every sub is different.
Your income, your culture, your currency, your lived experience, and your relationship with money all affect how you show up financially.

If I stuck to a rigid menu, I would be ruling out some of the most genuine, loyal, and fulfilling submissives I’ve ever had.

And I would also be selling myself short.
Because maybe you think a photo of my feet is worth five dollars.
But the right sub knows it’s worth five hundred.

Submission Is Not Just About Paying. It Is About Sacrificing.

What turns me on is not just the number.
It is the surrender.
It is when a sub tells me what he is willing to give up to serve me.
It is when he shows me what he can offer consistently, and lets me decide how he will serve within that structure.

That is why I do not always tell you what to send. That is why I will often say something like, “Impress me!”
I let you show me what you think my power is worth.
And I learn everything I need to know from that, and decide how or IF I will connect with you moving forward.

The Only Fixed Prices I Offer Are for My LF Content and Some Programs

I do have set prices for things that make sense to price.
Fetish clips, audio files, and some digital content on third-party platforms like LoyalFans.
Entry fees for programs like Cognitive Control Therapy™ etc.

But even within those structures, there is room for ritual.
For example, my therapy programs are structured with an initial tribute to begin, followed by additional (sub self chosen) tribute at the end of each “appointment.”
There is still a system. There is still submission.

You are not buying access.
You are earning progression, and a dynamic with me.

Maybe I Am Not The Domme For You

If you are looking for a quick list of kinks and prices, I am not the Domme for you.
I do not serve convenience. I do not bend to fantasy. I do not put a price tag on my power just to make things easier for strangers.

I expect submission that is real.
Tribute that is intentional.
And service that is sustainable, not transactional.

So do not ask me for a menu.
Ask yourself what you are willing to sacrifice.
Then come to me with that in your hands, ready to serve.

Because when I accept you, it is not because you paid a fee.
It is because you proved you understand what it means to obey.

—AJ